Good at being a man vs. being A good man. What’s the difference?
It’s a question of Masculinity vs. Morality. You can be good at being a man (masculine) but not be a good person. That has been seen lately in the NFL. As Bob Costas said about Hardy, the Cowboys player who had some issues with domestic violence, “we realize he’s not a very nice person, but a good football player.”
He is good at being a man, masculinity, but not good at being A Good Man.
So look at yourself and decide which you want to be…. Just A good man, or A Good Man and Good at Being a Man.